My Very First Viet Heartbreak

I had always been very lucky with viet girls, partly because I speak the language (a little), and partly because I know the ways of the viets. Forgive me for the lengthy account as I try to weave in other POVs too. It's not something recent (about 3 months) but it really changed a lot for me.

As a side note: I frequent the JC area a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a week. On most occasions, I don't take any girls, and if I do, I just sit and talk. Strictly no hanky panky. I have come to attain a reputation for myself as being the nice guy. I take time to assess my target, and when I decide to go in for the kill, I make sure I treat her like a million dollars. I even have girls I don't know coming up to me and telling me if my 'target' is worth going for. In most cases, I succeed after sitting with her for 3 times and I never have to pay for the bonk. That's about $30 x 3 for endless numbers of overnights. But there are sacrifices to be made of course. There are many a times when I really want to sit a girl, but becuase so and so is in Singapore, I have to give up. This also means never more than 1 girl from 1 place as long as you are in a r'ship'. Yeah, so it's hard on me too. [The purpose of this section is not for me to boast, it's a game rule that I thought I'd share with the bros here]

Ok, back to the story. I met this girl L. SYT, and a little crazy. First time I saw her and we were already making eye contact (as opposed to my usual 'assess longer' style). She was sitting the whole night with a guy that day. When she finally walked up to go to the washroom, I followed her. She saw me and she giggled. So I said to her that she looked so happy when she was sitting with her Ong Xa. She said she was happy because I was looking at her. She also told me that she had be 'bao' and would come over after her customer had gone off. Fast forward 2 hours and she did come to sit with me. Fast forward 2 hours more and she had spent the last 2 hours exclusively with me. Paid her $50 that night and went off.

Day 2: I went back to look for her again. Again, she sat with me the whole night and din want to butterfly. Fast forward 3 hours, I left. Then I remembered that I forgot to pay her. I called her but she said it was ok. But I turned back anyway to pay her.

Day 3: Was free in the afternoon so I asked her if she want to have coffee. Eventually, coffee din happen because we ended up in a hotel. [Won't go into details because this post is not about a steamy experience] There was no exchange of money here. I offered but she refused, saying that she loved me more than my money. Of course, I din believe her and just shrugged it off as nonsense talk.

Day 4: She called me 2 days after our first hotel encounter. Said she needed me to help her carry something from her place. I was free so I said ok. I went down to her place near tampines. I knocked on her door and when she opened, she just pulled me in. We just did it there on her sofa when her housemates went shopping. First time I ever did a viet in her own home.

Day 5: She was about to go back in a week's time. I had the night off so I decided to spend the night with her.

Day 6: She called me to ask if I were free for a coffee. Wasn't really in a mood so I said no. Then another viet friend of mine said she needed help to extend her application. I said ok. After the application, I took her for lunch. Who knows so fking suay I saw L at the place I was eating. She saw me and my friend, just walked up and left.

Day 7: This was a week after L had left Singapore. She hasn't spoken to me since despite the many smses that I sent her. Finally, I received an sms from Vietnam. It was from L's friend. She had tried to commit suicide in Vietnam and had left a deathnote for me. Immediately, I caught the next flight to HCMC. She managed to survive cutting her wrists but she wouldnt see me no matter how hard I pleaded. I saw her from outside the ward and I started crying. I read the note left for me and I cried even harder. That's why this post is titled 'My very first viet hearbreak'.

Since the incident, I promised myself never to play with another girl's heart. I don't believe there will be any outcome with WLs so why even start? Bros here could call me a fker or even say that L was really stupid. But that's just the way with viet girls. They are a lot more simple minded than our girls.

Now, all my transactions are in $$$.

Just food for thought.

BS KTV

After failing to get it on with Ms N last night, I decided to visit my regular low cost/high action joint during hh today. Loads of reports on this place already, and mine's not so special, so I'm just gonna make it real quick.

Reached there at about 3.30pm after my friend had already booked a room. Not many quality girls by the time I reached there.

Picked 2 big boobies, 1 for Dalian and 1 from Chongqing. Forgot their names, and even how they looked like, but if they were to flash their boobs, I'd probably remember. Hehe.

Regular action: Hand under skirt grabbing bare asses followed by heavy frenching and tits sucking.

Ended off with a HJ from the Chongqing mei. This chick really knows how to use her assets. I'll try to get her name again the next time I'm there.

Total damage: $50 (drinks) + $30 + $50

Pubs in Joo Chiat

Since I've gotten some queries (from non-sbf bros) as to what the Joo Chiat scene is like, just thought I'd give a little info.

That little road stretching from Joo Chiat complex to Katong is the infamous infamous area called Joo Chiat. Starting off near Joo Chiat Complex is Jazzy 51 (1 of the most popular joint) and Pub88 (or something like that) Taking a walk down further will lead you to where the main action is, i.e. a cluster of pubs inc Blue Lagoon, Club V, Bunker, etc.

Girls operating in this area are mainly viets ranging from the ages of 19-60. Hehe. Do not however, be surprised if you come across girls younger or older. There are 16 year olds working there too mind you. All girls work on a tipping system. They will approach you and offer to sit with you for awhile before they start to 'butterfly' (a term used to describe girls moving on to another customer before coming back).

So what do you do when a girl sits with you? That's up to the individual. Some guys like to hug, others like to kiss and touch. Idiots like me just talk in hope of developing something more later. As a side note, some girls do have a reasonable command of Chinese but most don't. Body and sign language is the way to go.

At the end of the night, you tip your partner between 20-100 again depending on how much you think her time with you is worth. This is also when the guy/girl approaches the subject of going for either a short time ($100) or overnight ($200). Not all does it but I believe most of them do.

That's generally the gist of it. Do check back with me for further (but reasonably intelligent) queries.

The Place: Blue Lagoon / The Prey: Ms N

I just sms N.

Me: Are you free to go for a movie tomorrow?

N: No sorry. You don't angry me ok?

Me: Nevermind. I understand, I know already (damn tu lan liao. she never said no before)

N: Thank you for your understanding.

Me: I know you changed. You are no long the N I knew. Sorry for disturbing you. (more tu lan)

N: Please don't think like that. I really need to earn money. I will spend time with b4 I go back VN. I promise you ok? (heart go soft a little)

----- I din reply -----

The Place: Blue Lagoon / The Prey: Ms N

I won't give an intro into what this place is coz it's been well covered in SBF already.

Reached there about 8pm this evening.

Crowded as usual on a Sat night. Got in with my mates and ordered 2 jugs of beer.

Did a quick scan ard but nothing caught my eye. In honesty, I wasn't really thinking of looking for someone new here coz my mind's already set on someone I knew from about 6 months ago. Let's call her N.

I knew N from 1 of the pubs in GL about 6 months ago. For some weirdass reason, N never came back to sgp for that duration. Out of pure respect for her and sheer stupidity, I never had the intention to bonk her. We got real close, up to the extent that I was the only guy she would call o x - and so I thought.

N is classy, beautiful, and has a reasonable grasp of the English language. For the longest time ever, I believed that N never did go to hotels - I always thought she was too good for that. But something happened just before she left the last time, which totally shattered my almost perfect image of her. I won't go into details here but let's just say that everybody's got a price.

Fast forward 6 months later to today, I see N approaching me. She looks as stunning as before. We exchange casual greetings and she offers to sit with me which I readily agree. Having not seen her for 6 months, sitting with her is pleasure that I had already come to terms with not being able to enjoy. Tonight is a special night. Flames have been re-kindled and memories returned.

Fast forward 3 hours later, I invited her to supper which she politely refused due to 'work commitments'. I leave a little disappointed, though understanding the fact she is here this time with the only intention of earning $$$. I can no longer comprehend her but I dun think I ever did anyway.

Somehow, I'm beginning to feel myself lusting for her. Since the last incident 6 months ago, I can no longer see her as a friend. I gotta have her. Problem is, I can't make her any $$$ offering because I don't intend to jeopardize this 'close friendship' that she assumes we still have. Well, I'll just have to plan the game slowly for this one.

This marks the close in today's chapter. I will be reporting on developments with N the moment it becomes available : )

Wish me luck!

A Short Intro of Myself

Well, Singapore isn't short of straying husbands and cheating boyfriends who have fallen prey to the lure of the darkside.

I, for one have been in the cheong scene for about 5 years. From cat40s to FLs in GL, KTVs (low-end, mid-range, high end), to viet + thai + pinoy pubs, I'm not ashamed to say that I have done them all.

I've had my fair share of learnings and experiences too, some more expensive than others. In short, I could say that I'm pretty battle-hardened.

Basically, this space allows me to do a little kiss-and-tell. I will share all my cheonging experiences here, some more current than others. All contacts to be shared, as I deem fit, will be provide in my favourite forum. Otherwise, all accounts written here are for reading pleasures only.

I do hope that bros who happen to stumble upon my humble blog will find it more than just a collection of badly written sex stories. Through this blog, I also hope to convey some of my innermost thoughts to all readers, and to share with the newbies, the expensive (monetary or otherwise) tribulations that I have gone through over the years.

Enjoy!