My Very First Viet Heartbreak

I had always been very lucky with viet girls, partly because I speak the language (a little), and partly because I know the ways of the viets. Forgive me for the lengthy account as I try to weave in other POVs too. It's not something recent (about 3 months) but it really changed a lot for me.

As a side note: I frequent the JC area a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a week. On most occasions, I don't take any girls, and if I do, I just sit and talk. Strictly no hanky panky. I have come to attain a reputation for myself as being the nice guy. I take time to assess my target, and when I decide to go in for the kill, I make sure I treat her like a million dollars. I even have girls I don't know coming up to me and telling me if my 'target' is worth going for. In most cases, I succeed after sitting with her for 3 times and I never have to pay for the bonk. That's about $30 x 3 for endless numbers of overnights. But there are sacrifices to be made of course. There are many a times when I really want to sit a girl, but becuase so and so is in Singapore, I have to give up. This also means never more than 1 girl from 1 place as long as you are in a r'ship'. Yeah, so it's hard on me too. [The purpose of this section is not for me to boast, it's a game rule that I thought I'd share with the bros here]

Ok, back to the story. I met this girl L. SYT, and a little crazy. First time I saw her and we were already making eye contact (as opposed to my usual 'assess longer' style). She was sitting the whole night with a guy that day. When she finally walked up to go to the washroom, I followed her. She saw me and she giggled. So I said to her that she looked so happy when she was sitting with her Ong Xa. She said she was happy because I was looking at her. She also told me that she had be 'bao' and would come over after her customer had gone off. Fast forward 2 hours and she did come to sit with me. Fast forward 2 hours more and she had spent the last 2 hours exclusively with me. Paid her $50 that night and went off.

Day 2: I went back to look for her again. Again, she sat with me the whole night and din want to butterfly. Fast forward 3 hours, I left. Then I remembered that I forgot to pay her. I called her but she said it was ok. But I turned back anyway to pay her.

Day 3: Was free in the afternoon so I asked her if she want to have coffee. Eventually, coffee din happen because we ended up in a hotel. [Won't go into details because this post is not about a steamy experience] There was no exchange of money here. I offered but she refused, saying that she loved me more than my money. Of course, I din believe her and just shrugged it off as nonsense talk.

Day 4: She called me 2 days after our first hotel encounter. Said she needed me to help her carry something from her place. I was free so I said ok. I went down to her place near tampines. I knocked on her door and when she opened, she just pulled me in. We just did it there on her sofa when her housemates went shopping. First time I ever did a viet in her own home.

Day 5: She was about to go back in a week's time. I had the night off so I decided to spend the night with her.

Day 6: She called me to ask if I were free for a coffee. Wasn't really in a mood so I said no. Then another viet friend of mine said she needed help to extend her application. I said ok. After the application, I took her for lunch. Who knows so fking suay I saw L at the place I was eating. She saw me and my friend, just walked up and left.

Day 7: This was a week after L had left Singapore. She hasn't spoken to me since despite the many smses that I sent her. Finally, I received an sms from Vietnam. It was from L's friend. She had tried to commit suicide in Vietnam and had left a deathnote for me. Immediately, I caught the next flight to HCMC. She managed to survive cutting her wrists but she wouldnt see me no matter how hard I pleaded. I saw her from outside the ward and I started crying. I read the note left for me and I cried even harder. That's why this post is titled 'My very first viet hearbreak'.

Since the incident, I promised myself never to play with another girl's heart. I don't believe there will be any outcome with WLs so why even start? Bros here could call me a fker or even say that L was really stupid. But that's just the way with viet girls. They are a lot more simple minded than our girls.

Now, all my transactions are in $$$.

Just food for thought.